We would like to introduce our Forever Family to you!
Today is a beautiful day! Today is our Gotcha Day! Celebrate with us!
(Can you tell that Silas does not like getting his picture taken?)
It’s been radio silence on our end for a while. We hope that you understand that our focus has needed to be on the many details of this process and on spending time with our changing family.
The obvious question is “how’s it going?” Well, that answer changes day by day and hour by hour of course, but overall, things are going really well. Have we had some significant challenges? Definitely! These are kids from a difficult past and the issues are complex and substantial. But our expectation is and was that these challenges would be there. We are choosing to count the wins instead of the challenges, and at this point, we feel we are making progress. We are learning to communicate better, we are building trust, and we are finding our rhythms.
Those who are at home helping out in a multitude of ways (with our house, at work, and more) have made it possible to simply focus on what we are doing here. Thank you to all of you – you know who you are!
Please pray for us as the next 24 hours are critical in the process. Pray especially for patience, understanding, and peace for all of us.
Brian and Ann
Over the past 13 months, our life has felt a bit like a really, really long hurdles race. You remember doing this as a kid, right? The hurdles event is unique compared to other races because it’s not just raw speed that counts, but also precision and timing that matter. As we have progressed through this process, there has been one hurdle after another: another piece of paper to sign, another training to complete, another class to attend, another book to read. Day after day has required another hurdle to jump over, hopefully with the right timing.
Well, we are happy to report that after a lot of running and a lot of hurdles, we have finally jumped over our last major one! As of this week, we have immigration paperwork in hand. We have plane tickets. We have accommodations in-country. And, thanks to a very successful Both Hands Project, to which many of you gave generously, and two generous organizations awarding us grants in the last couple of weeks, we now have enough money to travel. There are no more hurdles between us and meeting C and J!
A hurdles race is not won or lost on any single hurdle. Every single hurdle has to be jumped over in order to complete the race successfully. So while each one felt good, having gotten through all the legal, organizational, and “official” pieces is a huge relief.
Now of course - and to continue the metaphor - we are not done running yet. There are still challenges of in-country processes, legal proceedings, language barriers, and the dynamics of changing family relationships that lie ahead. To be honest, it feels a little like finishing a hurdles race and then getting on the starting line for a marathon. But in a process this long, we've got to celebrate these little victories with you.
Finally, we'd like to bring clarity to our financial status. As it currently stands, we have all the money we need to travel. Praise God! However, for those who are still interested in supporting us through donations, there are still several post-adoption processes and costs (including reports, other adoption legal documents, etc.) that are not yet covered through our fundraising efforts. Any money received up to $4000-$5000 from this point on will go directly to those costs.
Thank you for all your love and support!
WE LEAVE IN NINE DAYS!!!
-Brian and Ann
This process has had many milestones - some big and some small. But, we have reached the most tangible milestone to date in the process: we have a meeting date! We will meet the kids on July 30. Therefore, we plan to leave for Costa Rica on July 28.
We hope to get our plane tickets in the next couple of days.
Only 20 days until we leave!
-Brian and Ann
We were able to connect with C & J yesterday!
The beginning of the call didn't go as planned because we had several technical issues. However, we were able to work through it and we got to MEET them. It was so, so wonderful, even if it was short. (A special thanks to the team in Costa Rica who fought through the struggles and made it work!)
One of our favorite things about the call was that we all got to share our name signs with one another. In ASL, a name sign is a simple gesture that signifies your name (rather than always spelling it out). These are signs we will use with them for the rest of our lives. This was us meeting each other, not just learning things about each other. We've actually been wondering about this since the very beginning but we wanted to wait and have them show us. Let me tell you, it was worth the wait!
There was a lot more, but that is what we have to share right now. We so look forward to connecting again and, even moreso, going to get them!
-Brian and Ann
Tomorrow will be exactly one year to the day since we first learned about C & J. Never have we worked so hard and never have we prayed so hard. It is a privilege to be on this journey.
Tomorrow is also the first time we will Skype with C & J! We are so incredibly excited to be entering into the relational part of this journey!
Please pray with us as we all 'meet' for the first time!
A Both Hands Project is a unique adoption fundraiser that helps serve a widow in need. We completed ours this weekend with a wonderful team. You can watch this video to see all we accomplished to serve Ms. Arlene!
Watch RIGHT HERE: Both Hands Video
We'd like to say thank you to:
-Carl Pecinovsky for making this great video
-Integrity Tree Service, The Home Depot, and Perkins for their generous donations
-Everyone who worked so hard and helped us make the day a reality, including those who were unable to make it because of the weather delay. We love you all!
-Everyone who has already donated to our adoption, THANK YOU SO MUCH for getting us this far! (If you are still interested in donating, please see donation information on the "Progress + Giving" page.)
Brian and Ann
Friends: we are in the final push for our adoption fundraising as we are headed to Costa Rica by the end of July! So, we are engaging in this exciting and wonderful opportunity to participate in a Both Hands Project. “What is the Both Hands Project?” I’m glad you asked!
-A Both Hands Project partners a family in the adoption process with a widow whose home needs some work
-All the quality work and donation of time goes to our widow partner; all the dollars raised go to bringing our kids home!
-Our Project is this Saturday, June 2, where we are spending a day serving a widow at her home
-Our team will be working on landscaping, dead trees and branches, painting, minor repairs, and a few other tasks
-Our team is seeking sponsorship dollars to work on the house (like raising money by running a 5K race)
-We still need to raise about $12,000 to meet our financial goals
-There have been more than 650 Both Hands Projects nationwide – we are excited to join in this incredible movement
Learn more about the Both Hands Project: https://bothhands.org/project/martin-7460
Donate to sponsor our team: https://www.lifesongfororphans.org/give/donate/?gift=2&adoption=1&account=7460&family=Martin&memo=Both Hands Project
*You may also donate by check. See instructions on the "Progress + Giving" tab.
These past few weeks have been full. We have:
-Officially accepted our match with C & J
-Applied for their immigration
-Had lots of visitors and life-giving time with them
-Been working hard with our team for our Both Hands project coming up
-Had two fundraisers done on our behalf by our families (you guys are the best!)
-Applied for more grants
-Done. So. Much. Paperwork.
This next week includes:
-C & J learning about us as they begin their preparation meetings!
-Our Both Hands project (https://bothhands.org/project/martin-7460)
-Hopefully a little less paperwork
We should be headed to Costa Rica in July! We will not receive the official dates for several weeks yet, but that is all part of the process. A process filled with paperwork.
We are going to share more about the Both Hands project in the coming days but we wanted to give you a heads up about what has been going on. (Answer: Paperwork.)
Guys...it happened! We are officially matched! WOOOHOOOO!!!
We will have more details to follow, but today we are just really excited! We will be traveling in the next 2-3 months to pick up our kids!
God has provided and has guided us through this all. We are so thankful!